DRESS
Most travellers will feel seriously under dressed in Italy. Get used to
designer clad people of all ages sweeping past. Italian women seem to go to
the hairdressers every two weeks and wear the skinniest, leg sucking pants
you've ever seen and high heeled, knee-high boots and short skirts. The
impracticalities of this kind of dress for travellers is obvious. The best
thing to do is bring one set of formal clothes to wear out (literally) for
more dressy occasions. For the most part, sensible clothing that is not too
skimpy or tight will suffice. Keep yourself tidy and your clothes clean and
ensure sufficient body cover, particularly when visiting churches and other
religious establishments. Some churches will refuse entry to people in
shorts or short skirts and with bare shoulders. In the south it is a little
more conservative so women should not wear skimpy or see through clothing.
Summers are very hot and visitors from other parts of Europe may be
surprised, particularly in the south, while winters are very cold in the
north (mild in the south) so dress according to the season.
HISTORY AND STEREOTYPES
Italy has only been unified for little over
100 years, so while there is national patriotism
people tend to be Sicilian or Tuscan before
they are Italian. There are a lot of stereotypes
about Italian behaviour i.e wild driving,
love of eating, passionate, animated and
long siestas. However while some of this
can be true there are also hard-working
and resourceful people. Italians do have
a distrust of authority and will usually
find the quickest way around a silly rule
or unjust law because they are just that.
The phrase "When in Rome" should be your
general guide for survival in Italy. Try
to blend in and accept local customs. None
of them are too outlandish to be considered
unacceptable in your own country although
in some parts of Sardegnia they do prepare
maggot cheese!
THE FAMILY
Most young Italians remain at home until
they are married and are passionately loyal
to their family and family friends. Even
after marriage it is not uncommon for men
or women to visit their families regularly
and be in daily contact.
FOR WOMEN
While every second billboard in Italy seems to advertise semi-naked women to
promote products, women are still expected to dress prudishly (see above).
Harassement from Italian men is widely reported by female travellers.
However much of this is low level and accounts only to whistling and "ciao
bella's". It can easily be dissuaded by ignoring it. Italian men can be very
gentlemanly and will still open doors for women, help them with their coats
and pick up the cheque in restaurants. Women travelling alone may be treated
with curiosity mainly because it is a rarity.
HOSPITALITY
Italians are extremely generous people and
will often invite you to dinner or various
social functions once you get to know them
even slightly.
TITLES
Although Italians generally are friendly, they do not expect to be called by
their first names when they meet you. Honorific titles are very important
here. Anyone who has graduated from university is a dottore. Men are almost
always called Dottore, but if they are engineering graduates, they are
called Ingegnere. Male lawyers are addressed as Avvocato, for women it's
Avvocata. A company president or chairman is addressed as Presidente.
APPOINTMENTS
Punctuality is appreciated but lateness
is common in Italy and you should not be
offended if you are kept waiting by your
host for up to a quarter of an hour. Business
cards are usually exchanged for business
appointments.